Connect to your inner power
01/03/2005
Success is not something that only a chosen few can achieve. Everyone can be successful in every area of his or her life. You just need to know how to do things in such a way as to make sure you succeed every time.
You all have access to your own source of power, it is available to you at any given time or in any situation. Our actions feelings and thoughts can sometimes block our own access to power, leaving us powerless around our relationships with money, careers, education, health, vitality, our body, friendships and loved ones.
Success comes as a result of forming certain habits, and continuing in them. Consistency is key. With practice, anyone can become a successful person. The list below briefly outlines 10 of those ways. Anyone who consistently applies these principles to any area of their life will experience success in that area.
Vision: Have a clear picture of what exactly it is you want to achieve or become. Keep this picture at the top of your mind at all times. Start with the end in mind.
Belief: Believe without a shadow of a doubt that you can do it. Believe that you will succeed. Surround yourself with things that remind you that you can, and will, succeed.
Responsibility: Realise that you alone are responsible for your future. Avoid blame. Feel free to ask for help as you need it, but remember the final decision is up to you.
Affirm: Make a habit of saying out loud what you hope to achieve. Speak of it in the present tense, e.g., 'I am fit and trim', as opposed to 'I will be fit and trim'. If you feel awkward speaking out loud to yourself, write down the affirmation. Repeat it several times each day. This helps your mind stay focused on the goal. It also builds your self-belief and confidence.
Commitment: Make a firm commitment to action. Decide to take whatever steps you need to take to help you achieve your goals. Then honour the commitment you've made, especially to yourself.
Set a SMART goal: Now that you know what you want to achieve or become, you need to define it by making it a goal. Your goal has to be specific, measurable, l (it's got to inspire you and keep you motivated), attainable and attractive, realistic and timed.
Plan and Take Action: Work out a plan of action. Break down the plan into baby steps. Take a step or two each day, reminding yourself that each step is bringing you closer to your goal. Perform each act to the best of your ability, filled with faith, determination and purpose to reach your goal. Most importantly, be consistent.
Persistence: Do not give up until you have achieved what you desire. In the course of things, be willing to change any part of your plan which turns out not to work, and try something else. See every failure as a stepping-stone to success and as a temporary set back. Learn from it and push on towards your goal.
Gratitude: Maintain an attitude of gratitude, knowing that your dream is about to become a reality. Refuse to grumble when circumstances look contrary. Refuse to complain. Be grateful for where you are now, and for where you are headed. Look around for things to be grateful for. You'll be surprised to how many you find.
Become a giver: In your relationships, always think in terms of what you can do for the other person. What goes round comes round. After all, whatever dreams you have most likely involve interacting with other people. Be kind and generous to all; you never know where your breakthrough will come from.
If you live in Wales, Julie runs coaching sessions on fulfilling individual potential. For a complimentary 30 minute coaching session, you can call her on 01874 658594 or e-mail her at julie@commit2action.com